LOCAL HERO
REMEMBERED
Christopher’s Journey
A Remarkable
Young Man’s Struggle with Leukemia
Maribeth R.
Ditmars
Back in the spring of 2001 Sarasota rooted for one very
sick little boy. Now local author Maribeth Ditmars’ book Christopher’s
Journey invites you to walk in his shoes. The 218-page memoir
chronicles the four years of her son’s treatment for leukemia. Set mainly in
Sarasota where the Ditmars family lives, and at All Children’s Hospital in
Saint Petersburg where Chris was on treatment from 1997 until his passing in
2001 at the age of 14, the book recounts Chris’s daily life from the day he
was diagnosed until his last peaceful moment.
Christopher’s Journey weaves its story
using journal entries, narrative, and medical information that is presented
in layman’s terms. As the family experiences each new challenge the reader
is invited to share their intimate conversations, and their deepest
emotions. Chris and his family must grapple with the medical aspects of the
disease as well as financial concerns, spiritual issues, and the emotional
impact of a devastating illness upon the Ditmars’ marriage and Chris’s two
siblings.
Despite its sad conclusion the book is anything but
maudlin. The family learns to make each day count, and humorous tales of
Chris’s antics abound. When Chris was feeling well the Ditmars pulled a
variety of stunts such as sneaking Chris into a casino in Vegas, and when he
was hospitalized, Chris was notorious for his gags like placing food
coloring in his urine sample or rubber vomit on his bathroom floor. “Every
day we literally lived our own unique response to that infamous question:
What would you do if your doctor told you that you only had months to live?
Chris taught us to live in the moment, and I’m so grateful for all of the
crazy things that we did,” said Ditmars.
In addition to sharing a touching story,
Christopher’s Journey also highlights Sarasota’s supportive and
compassionate response to the family’s plight. Ditmars writes about numerous
gifts and acts of kindness from local individuals, businesses, charities,
and schools. “I’ll never forget the day of Chris’s blood and bone marrow
drive. It broke a record for The Suncoast Community Blood Bank. They had to
call in extra bloodmobiles, and people waited two hours in line without
complaining. It felt like we were getting one great big hug from the whole
city of Sarasota.” Ditmars commented, “It restored my faith in man, and in
my higher power.” As Chris became sicker local news channels visited him in
the hospital and gave the community an update. When Chris passed in July of
‘01 he was hailed as a hero, but his mother remembers him as a catalyst who
brought people together through their many acts of love and kindness.
Maribeth Ditmars plans to sell the book as a fundraiser
for cancer research and other charities. Since 1998 the family has raised
over $40,000.00, and by donating a portion of the book proceeds to nonprofit
organizations that host her as a speaker, the Ditmars hope to continue this
work. Ditmars has also run marathons all over the world for Team in
Training, the fundraising arm of the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. Says
Ditmars, “I hope to use my speaking and fundraising experience as a tool to
share Chris’s remarkable story, to raise money and awareness of cancer
issues, and to help other struggling families, especially those who have
lost children. I also feel that Christopher’s Journey offers
valuable insight to medical, clinical, and pastoral personnel who might
benefit from an in depth view from the patient’s perspective.”
Maribeth Ditmars has taught elementary school in
Sarasota for 23 years. She lives with her husband, Rob, and their surviving
son, Jarrod, who is thirteen years old. Their daughter Erin, 24 also resides
in Sarasota. Ditmars has also been published in magazines such as Runner’s
World, and Sarasota Magazine. In addition to sharing Christopher’s
Journey she aspires to use both her teaching experience, and her
writing experience to write books for children about children’s diseases.
Christopher’s Journey is available at Borders, Barnes
and Noble, Living Word Christian Book Store, iuniverse.com,
christophersjourney.com, and can be ordered at all bookstores. (ISBN #
1-58348-937-1). It can also be ordered by phone: 1-800-AUTHORS.
If you are interested in having Maribeth Ditmars speak
at your church or organization contact her at 941-650-7773. For book orders
larger than 20 a 40% discount is available. This would enable your
organization to resell the book for profit. Ditmars is also willing to
donate any booksigning contributions to your charity. For more information
call the number above or e-mail the author at mditmars@aol.com.